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What kind of state can we achieve through sexual intercourse?

Happy New Orgasm!


...Every moment as if you just had sex with the best penis in town...

What excites you more: His penis or making love with his soul?

When do you feel better: When you're drunk and free to do all that you shouldn't - or after a perfect orgasm with a man of your dreams?

And what do you mostly want to yourself in the New Year?

 

The way you spend New Year's Eve…

About ten years ago I spent New Year's Eve with my boyfriend. We were alone together at my place and after we stopped by at friend's party to welcome the company. For both of us, it was the first time we spent New Year's Eve alone with partner, and we really enjoyed it. We spoke about our intimate things, ate small cookies, drank champagne, made love on the floor, took a bath together, watched fireworks on the balcony..many beautiful things. We loved each other and we spent several hours together in love. I feel sweetness, every time I remember...

They say in our country the way you spend New Year's Eve, that way your whole next year will be. Does it make sense in drinking and shouting, pyrotechnics and huge quantities of food and alcohol that people are often prone to in the longest night? Perhaps some people really want that their incoming year looks just like that?

I prefer somewhat more this intimate version, making love, enjoying and sharing with dear ones. When I enjoy, and when I feel other people enjoy too, when it carries us all in some way, and when I'm happy just because I am. When you feel the warmth, and radiate the warmth into the space. The souls are opened, and all flows, so you don't know where you 'cease' and where do people around you 'begin'. Whenever I think of it, I immediately 'launch' the vibration of love. And immediately I'm getting somewhat easier, and I feel safe.

Delivering our souls through passionate making love

We people often forget about that. Making love in which we aim to deliver our soul to our partner, and when we feel that our partner(s) gave their soul to us, enables very good sharing in many different levels. Making love in which the boundaries between partners disappear. This doesn't mean that we aren't passionate, nor that we don't satisfy our desires through sex, and it doesn't mean that we don't want or don't need sex. Just the opposite. We may want sex as much as possible, while doing it in this way, it effects on us very beneficial. Like a truthful conversation with an old friend.

A lot of that was forced upon us by the society, a lot of some well-established and common ways how we should behave, how to do this or that... And so is the drinking of alcohol and different substances that common people consume in the brightest night of the year, which induces our following nights. Those supstances make us a bit warmer and relaxed, opened and more intimate with the people around. However, the consequences of drinking, acute and chronic, we might fully detect barely in the next century, and who knows whether we ever will? How are we in fact afraid of being free from ourselves and sharing, when we have to pay a variety of costly legal and illegal joints, so we can finally relax and become our own?

It all lives in us, exists in us, with alcohol, drugs, and without them. We are always of the same composition, but where do we hide those relaxed, blissful faces, without expectation, anger and accusations? Where do our 'intoxicated, euphoric doubles' live?

Through linking our physical bodies in sex, we connect our subtle bodies..

I believe that most of you remember the feeling after a complete (as much as possible to each individual) orgasm when you made love with your whole soul, and your partner too. When this isn't just a sexual mechanics or exercise due to the need of hormone discharge, but it became a love gymnastics. When people love each other, then their souls are naturally connected far beyond the boundaries of their physical bodies. We can feel exactly like when we loved our partner and made love all night...and when we had the feeling that we fly. Then we were one with ourself, with our partner, and with the act of making love..and the world around was a harmonious creation. Love opens the doors for our souls, eloped from the surface. So, love is what we need. And sex is then just a catalyst in reaction, like oxygen in burning. Through linking our physical bodies, we strongly connect our subtle bodies. And we don't feel shame, but fulfillment, and we are alive, free from everyday compositness and expectation of the others. This feeling exists in us, if our soul was once capable for it, it's capable again...because the soul doesn't hinder the time limit. Love is timeless. One unknown Italian author says - L'amore non ha età, è sempre nascente. - Love knows no age, it's being born continuously.

Do we need opiates? Or we can just use our physiology?

We all know how bad is to consume opiates, and still we use them so much. We also know how religions, education and various institutions respond with different dogmas and regulations about sex, while they all drink alcohol. About sex, and the supreme pleasure that can be achieved by a proper lovemaking, they obviously have no idea, when they still need alcohol to be ecstatic at New Year's Eve. It turns out, that most of sexual norms and 'rules' determine the ones who need to pull out from the bottle, to be relaxed and to enjoy. And very often, because of their provisions we feel embarrassed or ashamed, also condemned by society.

More naturally would be that we bother about what we carry in ourselves and what we can do with it. I don't know much about what's right and what isn't, but I see that the bliss of orgasm is inherent to all people I know. So, why didn't it then become our social norm? To improve our skills? To use love and sexual intercourse to become happier?

What kind of state can we achieve through sexual intercourse?

Ecstasy, bliss, fulfillment, freedom, and other high emotional, mental and soul states, which can partially be experienced by the consumption of opiates, in full, we can achieve through sexual intercourse. Then we can experience a greater level of happiness, happiness that has a stable base. Bliss as a state of our soul, not only as a feeling in one moment. The more times we feel ecstasy, while we are completely relaxed, the easier it will be to be ecstatic in daily activities unrelated to sex. If we train it and use it properly, we'll be able to renew our ecstasy, regardless of the external events. Perhaps it's a bit weird to write about sex, ectasy and enjoyment, and training at the same time…but yes, it's a skill. Skill of enjoyment..and skills we can train... We can try now….just by remembering the most blissfull orgasm we once experienced…invoke our extasy…

Free yourself so that you can truly enjoy..

Each new orgasm is an opportunity for an ecstasy and a chance to become free. Free of mine and social thoughts, feelings and dogmas that make me ashamed and afraid. Free from myself, free from the men and women, orgasm, and norms. Only when we realize that what we really want and what really makes us satisfied and ecstatic more and more deeper, comes from our souls – only then, we'll be able to feel that somebody's organ and soul really contents us, and we'll be able to enhance our enjoyment. Hence we achieve totally different pleasure, a completely new dimension of enjoyment. Enjoyment in something what we couldn't even percieve before. Ecstasy occurs when I'm brave enough to be completely free.

I wish you all most ecstatic orgasms and a greatest fullness of your souls in the New Year's Eve! And in every night and in every day and in each subsequent breath.

Orgasmic New Year!

 

Comments 

 
+1 #1 Sumiko 2012-03-04 21:27
Ameilie:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mnaw7DI1A1g
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